Some Guys Just Don't Get It

These days, guys really piss me off.
Random guys that is.

Guys that would appear out of nowhere, ready to shoot bunch of lies to sweetened (thinking I might believe) their words, but do not get the message that there's nothing I want from them.
I'm not interested that is.

Firstly, there's someone who should stop calling, mostly because I don't pick up the phone, even less when it's freaking midnight. If you were my friend and it's 3am, I'd still pick up the phone and help you out, but he's not.

Secondly, why did my friend throw me a random guy she met at the metro? Within less than 3 hours of slow chatting, he managed to tell me that he got this special feeling of knowing me since a long time. Yeah right, I'm sorry, I just wanted to throw up as I was reading that. Don't tell me you'd miss me without even knowing who I am.

Then, there's this one. I got to know him about a year ago through a friend I was working with at the hospital last summer. A year ago, he did say he was interested, but I wasn't. It's not because a year went by that I'd get interested after seeing him once again. A year later, he was still as obvious, so straightforward that even someone as clueless as me got the message. At first, I was reluctant to hang out with him again, even though my friend at work told me he got a girlfriend...still you know, it'd be awkward. All right, he's someone nice. But wouldn't any nice guy do what he did in order to get his price at the end? After the little party was over, he drove my friend and me over to her house. Shortly after, I got an sms from him telling me he's grateful for that night. Too sleepy, I just closed the phone and went to sleep. Morning came, my friend wanted me to write him back to say thanks, which I did. At least, let's be polite, right? I'd have done it anyways, but I feared of having an invitation to go out. Guess what? Well, I did guess it right! He smsed back to ask if I'd want to go watch a movie or eat an ice cream, which I frustrately declined, duh.

I know I'm mean when I decline, I don't really give you a choice, it's just no.
Miji asked me if it's that obvious that he's still interested in me. Oh please. Our friend (the guy and mine) told me that he got an official girlfriend, but when Miji asked him how it's going with his girlfriend, he answered, that she isn't his official girlfriend. Wasn't it say for someone to hear it, although she was somewhat drunk?

But he has to know that's because I don't want to. And that I don't have any strength nor will to start playing around with him. Nowadays, as soon as I know there's some weird stranger being interested, I just cut it off. You're not my friend so you're not staying, shoo.

That guy and his girlfriend are having a long distance relationship. I don't quite believe that these relationships would work. Miji doesn't believe in his girlfriend's faithfulness. I told her I do. I still want to believe that human beings do not hurt their loved ones just for the pleasure of doing so. But we hear and see what we really want to, right?