Jeopardy

Being quite a while, isn't it? I went into one of my infamous disappearing session.
Out of it, of course I got to catch up on social life. Or more likely, friends get to catch up with their lives to me. Within two days, I listened to two very similar stories. As a matter of fact, my two girls friends are currently in a relationship, with a third male party being also very interested in dating them. Overall, they are confused and they just talked, talked, and talked. Even if it was already past 2am, I managed to put all these words into something they call logical thinking. I astonished them and myself. Amazing me!

I said...

The imagination of how it would be with this someone else is very tempting. There is this impulsion of leaving the relationship the girls have been striving for so long, to explore elsewhere, because that new territory is interestingly unknown. As far as I know, we are curious beings. I suggested them not to give up what they have now to go towards uncertainty, no matter how strong the impulsive and unwell feelings are. I'm very aware that in the end, they will regret it. Also, the significant other might have forgiven once, but he can't do it twice.

The difference between my girls and I, is that no matter how much I whine and go insane following the choices I made and no matter how I feel afterward; time later, I don't regret them. Because even if it was just a moment of honesty, it was still honesty; of knowing what you want. Or maybe, because at one point, I had nothing else to lose.
But they do. They are insecure and dwells in hesitation, which would only lead to feeling of remorse. Beside, they might not have the capacity to detach themselves to view the reality from a distant point of view, hence not being able to convince themselves of their own reality. It might sounds sad, but to some people it's an efficient way to protect themselves.


My red betta pretending to sit on his ass...He's being very lethargic these days. I suppose he hates the cold.